My Date with Jian

XD Yup, that the title. There are reasons behind this title. Wanna find out more? Keep on reading..

Who is this person called Jian you might wonder?

Okay, I know most of you readers would know who I'm talking about just by reading the title of this post. As far as I'm aware, most you who are reading now knows me and my circle of friends. Anyhow, lets begin...

His name is Tan Pei Jian. (we have the same sur name. =) His nickname would be Jian/Shadow/Xajin. I usually call him Pei Jian although he kept reminding me to call him Jian. He is one year and 2 months older than I am.

As you know, I could hardly ever forget birthday dates at all. Its odd sometimes that I keep forgetting what day is today but I remember birthday dates quite well. Well, Jian was born on the 15th of November 1990. It was a sunny day!

I've known him for 4 years and a half if I'm not mistaken. As far as I could remember, I could not recall what was our first conversation. I bet it goes something like this....

Hey YOU!

Who? me??? *looks at who is this fella*

yeah... you! there with the blue bag...

errr....... yes???

What's your name??????? *with an amazingly large smile plastered on the face*

okay... no... it didnt go that way alright... I dunno... Somehow, we just knew each other.. It all started waaay back when I was in Form 2. Thats when I started to know him. Well, we were not that close that time. Both of us were librarians.

As time flies, I got to know him better. This is becauese, both of us were involved in the School Drama in 2006. I was in form 3 and he was in Form 4. He was The Director for the whole English Drama. Infact, he was the Director from the very beginning of the drama until he left school. He was a great actor indeed.


He's always passionate in everything he does. Especially in drama's. Full of emotions and always give it all out. As you know, a drama wouldn't be a drama without a twist of happiness, sadness and anger. All of those, he is able to potray in a drama successfully. Especially the sadness and anger part.. However, in real life, its hard to act. Acting is fun but Reality is way better.

In reality, I would say there are some similarities in term of character. He's a short tempered person especially when people picks on him. He's also an emotional person. There are a lot of meaning of emotional. It depends on how you classify them. What I meant here is that he is an emotional person in the sense that he can express his emotion very easily. However, he tend to over react at time. Well, that makes everyone different right?

Sad

Happy

I'm sleepy....

I don't care!

I'm being serious here...

Pictures are worth a thousand words..

Yeah, we got to know each other better during drama practices. We had lotsa fun didn't we?? *wink* I'll never forget those times. Infact, he even made me pose like a lala girl in front of the camera. and after that, I swore to never ever take a picture like that ever again. lol... But all of those are memories now. To be honest, I never regretted doing that at all. XD

On the same year, I remember having an argument or misunderstanding towards him. Well, I wasn't really involved in it actually. But, looking at what was happening as a third party, honestly I would say that you were in the wrong. So, things got a little rocky there but eventually, we patched up. All of it end with just a simple sentence "I'm Sorry"

with a flower on his hands.

Well, life can't be just as simple as ABC's or 123's right? I think that's the first time he saw me being really angry. XD. Well, it was a long time ago anyway.

That was all for year 2006.

In year 2007, aha!! This was the year a lot of things happened. It was a memorable year both the both of us. Memorable as in good and bad.

This year, he was the Head of the School Librarians. Remember what I said about him being passionate in whatever he is doing? Yeah, he did his job really well. This was the year where all the Librarians suffer under his herculean power in the Library. (except me and a few others)XD

Pictures can be deceiving..

While carrying out his duty, he was not the type o leader that would give in to any mistakes. He had the vito power to fire(scold) anyone who turns up late for duty.

He would question you why were you not present for duty.
He would have meetings after meetings with all of the Librarians just to remind them time and again what they should and should not do.
The best of all, most of the Librarians are scared of him. Some even resigned because they could not handle the responsibility.

Well, honestly he was a good leader. The management of the library was much better than the year before. Even though we were low in term of quantity, but its the quality that matters most.

Besides that, 2007 was his senior year. He and his friends were really active organising numerous activities such as The recycling stuffs, X-challange and so on..

From the left, Ji Mi, Joon Hong, Wai Choon and Jian

They are the 4 amigos. Always together no matter where they went. XD I remember you saying something about the 4 of you. "United We Stand, Divided We Fall" XD. Well, You guys were really fun to be with!

As months passed, SPM for pei jian is just around the corner. well, things happened to me and things happened to him. It was a bittersweet year for me. He' s a great listener. =) Thank you very much.

He's a good friend too.
the pic ; with nara and sook mun.

Some random pictures of Jian when he's younger. XD damn cute wei..

Derrick and Pei Jian
ps : derrick.. your face looks kinda odd... XD haha.. no matter, you look better now. Same goes to you, orange shirt. =)

with Ji Mi and their.... cards..

See how much these people have grown??? damn cute wei....

Well, after finishing his Form 5, he enrolled himself into collge. HELP College. Through all the pictures I've seen, you look much much happier than before.

During C2AGE
This time, I'll let the pictures do the talking..

Watch looking at dude....??

You seee.... you look better now..
another pretty girl...

Flirting with his lecturer. XD joking joking!
Kids... don't do this in collge ar! XD

Well, now.. this is ok! XDDD!!!!

I'm in heaven...... @.@

You see... he loves girls you know...

Peace to the world!

May you Have a wonderful and successful future ahead!
=D

Thanks for being such a great friend. =) I truly appreciate it very much. No matter where we are or who we become, we'll always be great friends.. We should met up and have a drink sometime! Take care!

lots of love,
Denise.

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PS : about the title.... I did not meant it literally... XD Both of us just came up with that genius idea..