I'll just fast forward it alright. So, she ran away. End of story. She never came back. I was so dumb to even think of her. Probably you might think I'm such an inconsiderate person. Well, there are a few things that I am not happy about her. I truly understand that arguments are always bound to happen between us. It can be misunderstandings or mistakes. But, everything has its limits. Clearly, my maid crossed that line. There is a lot of drama happening just because of her and I would to explain everything, it will take a few more posts.. To those of you who have met her, I'm sure you're shocked to hear this from me.
She lied to people who I kept close to my heart. Its not the first, second and absolutely not the third. Don't worry, I bet she is in a place where she is happy right now. I trusted her that she is not like any other maids despite all of them have almost the same purpose here, working in Malaysia. Well, A few weeks ago I discovered something really shocking. Its so unlikely to happen but it did happened. We found out how she ran away.
My mum was chatting with my neighbour. I think we are lucky to have such wonderful neighbours. They have 3 kids and all of them are boys aged 1, 3 and 6. Their parents are professionals in the careers and also, they have a maid. Man, they are noisy especially when all 3 of the kids cries at one go. Surprisingly, all of them speaks English! lol. But, that is not the point.
One day, my mum was chatting to one of their sons who is 6 years old. He was playing with his toys alone while their maid was in the kitchen. You know, all those lame baby talk questions. So, my mum asked out of randomness,
"Hey *insert name*.. How are you today?"
"I'm fine, thank you."
blablabla....
"Do you still remember *my maid*??"
"Yes, I still remember her. She went to Ipoh"
" *wonders* Ipoh??? Why did you say shes in Ipoh?" My mum asked him with full of concern.
"Yes, she is in Ipoh. My dad fetch her there."
"Ohhh.... Are you sure? when?"
" Yes. He told me that he has to fetch *my maid* to Ipoh to work."
Okay... that was it. I do not know whether to believe this or not. But, something disturbed me. Why on earth would a 6-year-old said this?? I mean, how on earth could a 6-year-old make up such thing?? Isn't that just really odd??? I mean... eishh....
Seriously!!when I found out about this, I was asking so many question where there is no answers for my questions. Yeah, I do understand people lie. But, I'm not sure if a 6-year-old would do such a thing. Another thing is that, when we asked our neighbours about this, they were as shocked as us. They were asking how it happened, when and so on and so forth.
I know I can't simply point fingers but..... ughhh!!! I'm pointing fingers at anyone now. What do you think???
Well, lesson learned.
1. Never trust your maid ever even though they worked for you for 11 long years.
2. Never hire your maids more than 5 years(if they are excellent)/ 3 years (average). All of them end up to be professional liars, shallow minded and low mentality.
3. Beware with your neighbours.
- I would like to elaborate on this. How can you "amalkan rukun tetangga" if your own neighbour runs off your maid (this refers generally and not to anyone in specific). We always write in our essays that people who live in the city don't even know their neighbours or who lives next door and we just couldn't be bothered to get to know the people next door. I'm not applying this to everyone. Its just my opinion. Who know, our very own neighbour are the culprits of house invasion, robbery, kidnap, rape, murder and the like. You'll never know. They can just provide the criminals with information about us. ugh. I guess this can be a debate topic huh coz there are pros and cons about this. I wouldn't mind living with Klausner who would build the sound machine all day as long as he does not create havoc. I don't mind cutting as many roses for him, coz at least he would just be attracted with sounds and not helping maids to run away. I could just cut roses for him so that he could hear the roses shrieking all day and probably he would just go crazy for being too happy. At least he is not interested in running off other people's maids. ugh!
After all these years, I really appreciate everything that she has done for us. She has to leave her family behind just to look for money. Although she has a husband, but he's just a rotten piece of meat. No offence but its true. How can a husband depends on his wife 100% financially and not contributing anything. All he does was laze around, rot at home and spends every penny of his wives money when she brings it home after years of saving them. She stupidly gave in every single time, cheated by her husband time and again. Ughh!!!! I pity her sometimes. I always take this in consideration because I know she is going through all these things in her life and it's not easy for her. Throughout the years, she has done a wonderful job. She has an undeniably amazing cooking/culinary skills. She is very friendly and easily to talk to although she laugh uncontrollably sometimes which makes the atmosphere akward after some time.
Well, I do have more to say but I'll just stop here.
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You know what?? As I was sending some (about almost 200. hehe) pictures to Kok Siang yesterday, I came across waaay too many pictures that I never seen in such a looooong time. I could see how all of us grew in 5 years. wow. A lot of things happened. Today, I am glad that I took all those pictures. I think theres is more picture i did not sent to kok, since I failed to save some of the pictures back when we were in form 2. Yes, there are more, but I just couldn't find them.
There are a few things I will never forget. never. Take for example, The Drama Team and The Debate Team. To those who are involved in drama, don't you just miss all those stupid and crazy jokes we had. All the scenes that we had to do over and over and over again like 3 billion times until we got so frustrated?? All the food, drink and party?? haha. I bet you do. All those hard work really paid off since our school drama won the competition of 3 consecutive years.
Some random pictures about of the past..
Look at our faces. Back then we don't have pimples! Our forehead and cheeks are so smooth... and look what hormones did to our faces now. haha.
There you go! I just woke up okay.
and...yeah.. he still has pimples! wakakaka!! =X
and...yeah.. he still has pimples! wakakaka!! =X
I can't remember what happened and how I took this picture. XD
Ji Mi's head got stuck.
This was taken in KLCC.
It was all over the news on tv and you know, theres was a lot of commotion at that moment.
Some say, we might have to chop off his head. wakakaka!!!
ok.. Just kidding. He did not appear on the news and there was no commotion whatsoever.
Ji Mi's head got stuck.
This was taken in KLCC.
It was all over the news on tv and you know, theres was a lot of commotion at that moment.
Some say, we might have to chop off his head. wakakaka!!!
ok.. Just kidding. He did not appear on the news and there was no commotion whatsoever.
This was taken on the day we received our PMR results!
7 A's baby!!!!! =DD
7 A's baby!!!!! =DD
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